I like this whimsical sign. Obviously, we're *not* only in need of water and sun. We need sleep, companionship, mental stimulation and so much. And we're not houseplants! And yet, I enjoy how this trivial sign is a reminder, too, that in some ways we really need few tangible things to have a good life. And, also, we do need to manage our complex emotions. Emotions that include anger, fear, sadness, grief are difficult. My hope is that all persons can live in a world spurned on by more hopeful and loving emotions. My hope is that all persons can live in a world characterized by less fractured and hurtful emotions. Let's do more to share water, sun and care & compassion, one to another. Toward eupan ~ ~ marty alan michelson, ph.d.
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